Are you ready to have your first child?
You might answer yes, but you may want to think about it a second or third time.
Having a child in the house is a joy every couple should know. However, having a child is no piece of cake!
The truth is, behind the image of those smiling families you see everyday in TV. commercials – where parents happily play with their toddlers while singing the ad jingle – is a reality made up of sacrifice.
It may seem like a good idea to have your first child but keep in mind that once that baby comes, it’s going to be the end of your life as you know it!
The time you now have for yourself will be greatly diminished – if not non-existent – as you find yourself a slave to the baby’s needs even while inside the womb. And as soon as it comes out, it will demand more and more of your time as it matures and grows all the way till they can be independent citizens! Everything from diapers, pacifiers, basketball shoes, dental check-ups, hair-cut, and school tuition fees… the list is just endless!
You will then realize that you start living less and less for yourself and more and more for your baby. Your time with your friends, your salary, the vacation that you and your partner have been dreaming about…practically everything you have in your life will be re-arranged to fall behind the baby’s needs.
Bear in mind that the intention here is not to scare you off in having that first-born but rather to prepare you on having the right mindset to be better parents for your child. The keyword here is SACRIFICE and there is no dictionary in the world that can define it any better than by becoming responsible parents yourselves.
However, it’s not all bad. Having that child in your arms every time when you get home from work makes everything worth it. Seeing that baby grow day by day to become an even better person than you gives a sense of fulfillment described with unfathomable joy and profound pride.
But the best things in life aren’t free. So think about it and discuss it with your partner. Make sure that you are prepared to sacrifice yourself in anything and everything for your child. Bear in mind that everything in life is made sweeter by adversity, so why should having that precious sweet child be a walk in the park?